"Owning" It

No apologies. No blaming. No self-loathing.

Just pure accountability for all that is you.

I never fully understood the meaning of, "Never rely on someone else for your own happiness", until a few years ago. Here's the truth, and it's pretty simple: Expecting other people to bring you happiness puts power in the wrong hands. We have a personal RESPONSIBILITY for our own happiness and well-being. Shit happens to everyone, and as much as you'd like spend your energy finding blame elsewhere - it is still up to you to do whatever is necessary (to be happy).

Let's be clear; nobody is going to spoon-feed you rainbow sparkles and sunshine-on-a-stick every day. It takes a great amount of focus to remember that sometimes you just gotta "toss your hair in a bun, drink some coffee, put on some gangsta rap, and handle it". Boom. With a side of sassafrass. (behold the Urban Dictionary definition provided). You may even add in a full zig-zag of snapping fingers.

Even if it is someone else's fault, that doesn't mean they will take action to fix "it" - whatever it is. Guilt-trip all you want, but it won't work for everyone. (Don't worry, karma will take care of them later).

My favorite type of people are the ones who won't take bullshit from others, but know when to put matters into their own hands. These people are invincible. Untouchable. Un-f***-withable, if you will. Let's call them "Boomerangs" - they always bounce back. We could all be a little more Boomerang in life instead of victimizing ourselves.

Anyways... my point is... just OWN it. Take ownership of your life and your health. Joy isn't something you find, it's something you create!

<3 Love & Light my friends